My son’s platoon arrived back at Fort Carson on December 21st. Alison had their new apartment all set up and decorated for Christmas—everything was perfect and the only thing missing was Josh. Unfortunately, my son did not come home with his platoon. Josh’s orders had changed and he would return at a later date.
All the planning and preparation for a wonderful Christmas with Josh came to a screeching halt. Alison flew back to Montana to spend the holidays with her family. The beautifully decorated Christmas tree stood in the cold apartment with no Christmas celebration in sight.
One thing I have learned as an Army mom is to expect the unexpected, but when it happens it still hits hard and sends my emotions on a roller coaster ride. It was heart-wrenching to think about the tree that went up, with such anticipation of the wonderful Christmas to come, but would have to be taken down without any Christmas celebration.
The worst for me was the irony that I, through Military Families Ministry, launched a project that sent almost 1800 stockings to deployed troops for Christmas, yet my own son would spend Christmas in Afghanistan with no stocking, not one gift or package from home. I was angry at the Army and heart-broken for my son.
Last week, Alison called to tell me that Josh had been released and should be arriving within the week. On Wednesday, she sent me a text to say she was coming up that evening and would stay with us until he got home. When the door opened and I turned to say hello, it was not Alison that I saw—it was Josh. I sat, stunned for what seemed a long time, before I stood to greet and hug my son. The hug was precious and full of relief; different from the hug that sent him off to Afghanistan last June.
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