Dorie's son, Nelson (center), poses with other ROTC cadets from his Regiment during the summer LDAC.
The cadets at The Citadel form a tight bond. And as I mentioned in the earlier blog How The Citadel Ya-Ya’s Came to Be, I found a group of good friends as well. Now that I’m making the mental transition from being the mom of a cadet to being the mom of an Army 2LT in less than five months, I’ve learned the network of mom’s only increases.
This past summer my son attended the Leader Development and Assessment Course (LDAC) at Joint Base Lewis-McChord. About 6,400 Army ROTC cadets from around the country passed through LDAC last summer. LDAC is a 29 day leadership test. The ROTC cadets are graded on a series of challenges. That grade is added to the grade they receive from the ROTC program at their school.
Ultimately these scores and their grade point average and a few other factors will determine where they will be assigned within the Army after graduation.
The Public Affairs Office (PAO) there kept up a blog and a Facebook page to keep the parents, wives, husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends informed. They’d post updates on the schedule, information on how to send mail, photos from the various challenges and also provided live streaming of the graduation ceremony. This was my first introduction to the wider dimensions of being an Army family.
Cadets from 5th Regiment at their graduation ceremony. Photo by Jesse Beals.
I combed the blog and Facebook site daily looking for a photo of our cadet. For 29 days I had no sign of him. Then the day after graduation, they posted a photo of the cadets marching to graduation. There he was on the far right in front carrying the Platoon Guidon!
I was introduced to parents across the country through the Facebook site. We had our own discussion group on the Facebook page for parents of cadets. There were also discussion groups for spouses and girlfriends. It did appear the wives, moms and girlfriends were the most active on the discussion boards. An occasional dad would chime in. I also learned the Army is active in social media and several discussion boards are available.
The experience helped me see that the training my son received at The Citadel prepared him for the challenge of LDAC. What I also realized is that The Citadel experience prepared me well to send him off to this challenge. It never occurred to me to be concerned whether he passed the PT test, as so many other parents on the boards were. The Citadel has a very rigorous program and physical training is one of my son’s real strengths.
The group photo is of 5th Regiment Platoon A posted by the PAO of LDAC at Joint Base Lewis McChord.
Many of the posts were of family members upset that they couldn’t talk to their cadet for most of the 29 day experience. The cadets’ phones are locked up the first few days and returned later. I had already gone through that communication shut down during the first week of my son’s first year and then again the year my son tried out for the Summerall Guards.
I don’t for one second equate what I went through as a parent supporting my son at The Citadel with the challenges of an Army ROTC cadet. And it is absolutely not in the same category as that of the parent of a deployed soldier. However, I do see that being the parent of a Citadel cadet is great training for the tougher challenges of being the mom of a young Army officer.
Boy, did I need that training. I had no idea at that time how useful all of those experiences would be later on for understanding, accepting and supporting a young Army officer. I am now very grateful to have been a distant companion to our son on the road less traveled.
Leader Development and Assessment Course
Army Social Media Handbook 2011
Army Social Networks
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